Internet Laryngectomee Support
August 2001
"Did you hear him talk?"
By Joe Kelly
Loosing my voice was the biggest shock in my life as it was for all of us.
But looking back the brightest event in that dismal period was the visit of a fellow lary with a hands-free valve.
He was sent by my surgeon to try and make me see that all was not lost. Being a salesman and feeling lost was something I will never forget.
When I opened the door and he said “hello,” I knew there and then I would be OK.
I cannot stress enough how important it is for newbies to see and hear someone talking.
My wife lit up like a Christmas tree and all she could say was, “Did you hear him talk?”
It was much more than either of us expected.
Please, if you get a chance to visit someone who has recently had the surgery, GO!
I have on two occasions and it was as happy for me as it was for them. The last lady I went to see was in the doctor’s office.
My doc set it up because the lady was so down in the dumps and would not even try to talk.
She carried a notepad around with her.
But when she saw me talking all she could do was hug me and cry. In fact we both stood there like dummies sobbing.
Once we know there is a light at the end of the tunnel, our outlook on life changes for the better.
This lady's did and it had an effect on me as well. Those were sad days and any light at all meant so much.
Check with your doctors and see if there is anyone you could help get a happier start.
Try it, you'll like it. Don't forget it gets better every day. Just hang in there.
Joe can be reached at jkwlly6060@sbcglobal.net.
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“There is a job to be done for those who need to be guided and encouraged to make the effort to speak again and who must be sustained through the frustration of those first efforts.
These are your jobs. This is your service. Service, you know, has been called the rent we pay for our room on earth.”
(Dr. Charles Cameron, MD, at the founding meeting of the IAL in 1952.)
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In the beginning...the IAL
If the International Association of Laryngectomees had a "founding father" he was Dr. Warren Gardner of the Cleveland (Ohio) Hearing and Speech Clinic.
Because of his personal interest and work with laryngectomees, and based in part on encouragement he received from some in attendance at the 1951 American Speech and Hearing Association (ASHA) convention, he organized the First Institute on Voice Pathology.
It was held at Western Reserve University in Cleveland on August 1-2, 1952.
There were already a number of laryngectomee support groups scattered around the country primarily in the larger cities such as Boston, Chicago, Cleveland, Detroit and New York.
And representatives were contacted from each club which were known and invited to attend.
200 people attended the conference.
The meeting was in two parts, the First Institute on Voice Pathology, and the First International Meeting of Laryngectomized Persons.
The sponsors were the Cleveland Hearing and Speech Center, The American Cancer Society, the Office of Vocational Rehabilitation of the federal government, The National Cancer Institute, the Lost Chord Club of Cleveland, the Cleveland Academy of Medicine (local surgeons), and the School of Medicine and Speech Department of Western Reserve University.
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